The Bossy Massage (video)
Mar 15, 2016
I discovered this one somewhat by accident, some years back, and the more I play with it, the more powerful I notice it is. The point of this one is not the ‘massage’. It’s not the touch at all – it’s the process of noticing what it is you (the receiver) want and finding out what it feels like to be absolutely in charge of how you are touched, moment by moment. The receiver cannot be passive and it is extremely difficult to fall into tolerating or going along with something. It can be uncomfortable – and can also be luxurious – or some of both. (40 min.)
